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This Lifechanger attitude continues with the premise that little and often gets the job done.
20 minutes of focused, energised attention to a task every day will see you start to achieve whatever it is you’ve decided to do in your life.
20 minutes of meditation every day will refocus your life and help you create amazing energy, clarity and purpose.
20 minutes of intense, high octance exercise will enable you to develop a body that’s fit, strong and healthy.
20 minutes of reading on a subject every day will lead to your mastery of its theory.
20 minutes of focused activity can be used to achieve in every aspect of your life.
Think about those mundane or annoying or boring tasks you hate to do; whether its chores around the house, the weeding of the garden, the reports you put off for work every week or even visiting relatives you can barely stand to be around.
We all face those times in life when we have things we must do that we just don’t like doing. I think everyone has something they dislike having to do in their work and even in their personal lives.
To be someone who makes real change in their life, you have to be willing to do those things, you have to cultivate the ability to get through these tasks, to get them done and get to the other side.
And I have an easy way for you to do it. Give it 20 minutes.
This works every time I use, I just wish I remembered to use it every time I put something off!
If I have to go to a networking event that I really don’t want to go to, then I promise myself that I’ll go and I’ll give it 20 minutes. That’s all, after 20 minutes I can leave; no guilt, no critiscm, and as a bonus, I miss out on the inner voice recrimination about how I should have gone and what I probably missed by not going.
Try it the next time you have a social event you’re not particularly excited about. Give it 20 minutes. Oftentimes, I’ve found that I end up meeting some old friends, or connecting with some great new people and I end up staying at the event for a couple of hours and having a good night. And if not, I give it my best effort for 20 minutes and then I leave. You’ve given up 20 minutes and you’ve done all you could in the circumtances; that’s brilliant and worth congratulating yourself on.
When I worked for a global manufacturing company as a corporate business manager, one of my big clients had weekly production and supply meetings with all their multi national suppliers on the call. And before every meeting I had to prepare this immense spreadsheet with data about Work in Progress, stock levels, distribution channels by size and colour for every line we made for them; the exact number we had in production, estimated completion dates, returns, quality control and available to ship to store.
It was useful data but rarely referred to and it was a monotous task chasing the factories in Morocco, China and Sri Lamka every week for this information and I hated doing it.
I would put it off every week until it was a rush through lunch hour to get the data filled in before the meeting started.
And the more I put it off, the less I wanted to do it. Have you ever noticed that? Everything you put off doing seems to get bigger, harder and even more tedious.
And yet, once I sat down and applied myself, actually concentrated on getting the job done rather than on all the reasons why I didn’t want to do it, it flowed easily for me and was straightforward and quick to do.
I got fed up of leaving this job to the last minute because I hated the scramble to get it finished before the global conference call which left me no time to actually concentrate on more pertinent issues that I would like to raise with our clients.
So, I started giving the data 20 minutes of concentrated effort every day and I’d get so much done that I was able to prepare up to the minute information to share with the client on product development and industry trends. And I was calm and professional rather than hot, distracted and frustrated as I’d been previously.
I now use ‘Give it 20 minutes’ every time I have a form to fill out, a job to do before deadline or a meeting I don’t wish to attend. I give it 20 minutes of my best effort and it gets done, easily and without pain or panic.
I also use the ‘Give it 20 minutes’ rule when I want to introduce a new habit that I’m finding it hard to commit to.
It works every time. Especially when its something I am avoiding, like sometimes I avoid writing.
There was a period earlier this year, after I had a serious car accident when I couldn’t write. My body was too hurt and my mind was focused on healing and pain management.
But then after a while, I wanted to write but I didn’t feel like I had anything to write about. I’d just had this incredible life shattering event and I survived and I didn’t feel like I had anything to write about!
So I gave it 20 minutes every day. That’s all I asked of myself, 20 minutes every day.
Some days its easy, time flies by and when I come back to here and now I find I’ve been writing for hours.
Other days I have to grit my teeth as I watch the clock tick off the minutes, barely writing a line. So I give it 20 minutes, some times the results aren’t all that great, but I do it every day.
And its amazing because the cumulative efforts of that period became a book which will shortly be available on Amazon, ‘ Universal Wisdom from Modern Day Masters.’
And the habit starts to stick and now I write every day, sometimes it might only be for 20 minutes although that doesn’t happen very often any more. The important thing is that the habit has stuck.
Giving it 20 minutes is a truly multi purpose LifeChanger.
You can use it to develop a new habit that serves you in creating a better life for youself.
Can you do some form of exercise for 20 minutes every day? Absolutely.
Can you read a few pages from a transformational book for 20 minutes every day. Totally.
Can you get up 20 minutes earliers to meditate and plan your day? I think the answer’s yes!
You can use ‘Give it 20 minutes’ to get through a tough task you’ve been avoiding, use the fact that you’re just going to do it for 20 minutes to motivate yourself to do the things you need to do that you don’t like and don’t want to do.
Whether its attending a work party, a networking event, going to the gym, a work task you dread, or revision for a college test, you can give it 20 minutes.
You can use this Lifechanger for just about anything because you can give just about anything 20 minutes of your time and best effort.
Yes, I said it. Its not enough just to turn up for 20 minutes; you’ve got to put all the energy, skill, and enthusiasm you can muster into the task for that allotted amount of time.
Imagaine you are visiting a relative or in-law you can barely tolerate; when you’re giving this visit 20 minutes, you’ll converse with interest, listen intently to what they have to say and give them all of your attention. Its only for 20 minutes, challenge yourself, you know you can do that.
Use this Lifechanger when you consider going to your office party and you’d really rather be cleaning out Santa’s reindeer stables. Giving it 20 minutes means you’ll go in a great outfit, groomed to perfection, smiling, laughing and dancing for just 20 minutes. You can give anything 20 minutes of your best effort.
When you’re training for a marathon or simply taking a walk to get started exercising again and its pouring with rain outside, you can go out and run or walk in one direction for 10 minutes and then turn around and come home. You’ve given it 20 minutes, that’s great.
Another way to use your 20 minutes Lifechanger is when trying to drop an old habit that hurts you or no longer serves you.
I used to crave chocolate and would eat three or four bars a day. I was able to give up the mid morning, lunch time and evening bars easily enough, but that mid afternoon one, when I needed a kick to wake up my energy, that was proving resistant to all my efforts.
So when the cravings hit, I would give it 20 minutes. I’d say, not right now, if I still feel like this in 20 minutes, then I’ll go get something to eat. And at the beginning of this experiement I’d still be craving the chocolate, heck I spent the whole 20 minutes just thinking about it.
However, as I perservered with this, I found that I got distracted by whatever I was doing and it would be an hour later or even home time before I’d think about the choclate again.
I am not sure if this would work with cigarette cravings or alcohol but it could help you cut down and that’s work a try, isn’t it?
When you are determined to change your life, then you must find a way to master doing things you don’t particularly like to do, whether it be studying, fitness training, networking or simply ignoring cravings for junk food or whatever your wished for change is.
When you start to cultivate that change, you’re going to have to overcome your natural reluctance to forming a new habit. If you give it 20 minutes; 20 minutes of your best effort every day, you will indeed see your life change the way you want it to and you’ll love the new direction you’re taking.